Are you rushing it?
Men who are unsure rush. They rush to cover the moment they might get judged. But the rush is the tell. Slow down and take the lead. You set the pace in that room. She feels who owns the moment. Be the one who owns it.
Pro tips
- Rushing reads as fear, even when you think you hide it.
- When you slow down, she slows down with you.
- The man who sets the pace is the man in control.
- Staying beats finishing fast, every single time.



